Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Keep Us Searching Through Smoke...

I recently finished a book that was highly recommended by a friend. In fact, she made me borrow her copy, so that I wouldn't have an excuse not to read it. I started reading it a while back, but things were kind of crazy in my life, and I was already invested in a few other books, so I never finished it; and honestly, I didn't pay too much attention to what I had read thus far. The book is entitled "The Only Road North." Over the past week or so, I decided to commit to reading the book in its entirety- not so much from anticipation, but more because I figured my friend would like to have her book back at some point. This time, I was attentive to the author, Erik Mirandette. And, you know what? I couldn't put the book down! I know that's so cliche, but it's so true! Everyone should read this book! I won't babble on and on and ruin it for you, because I trust you will go read it on your own ;) But, there is one thing that Eric said that particularly caught my attention. I had to stop reading, and just think. At the height of all the chaos, Eric says:

"At times like this in life I usually find myself asking why. Why do people do this? Why do we invite trials, frustrations, and discomfort? Why do we intentionally put ourselves in situations that we know will push us beyond where we like to be pushed, to places we know will be tough?

Maybe, I have finally resolved, there isn't one simple answer, just a longing to be tested and proven. A desire to know that we can overcome whatever obstacle we may be forced to face. It is only when we are pushed past our self-perceived limits that we are able to clearly see our truest nature, discover our deepest selves; only then can we hope to improve upon what we find. To do so is neither safe nor comfortable, it is both dangerous and scary. But we warriors at heart were meant to live dangerously."

I've never journeyed on my dirt bike down the eastern coast of Africa through bandit territory, the jungle, and other life-threatening scenes, but I have endured, and will continue to endure, my own share of obstacles. Many of them, I would vouch to say I didn't "invite," but rather, they just sort of fell into my lap. These struggles, however, are how we learn our "truest nature." We aren't forced to learn anything about ourselves when we're comfortable. It's when we're pushed and put under pressure that our deepest self shines through. How do we respond when our back is against the wall? What do we do when there seems to be no way out? Do we crumble or conquer? Let's be conquerors! So, go get out of your comfort zone. Step out in faith. MOVE. Don't run away from those "uninvited" problems- face them head first... but don't forget to wear your helmet!

James 1:2-4 "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Simple Pleasure #4

Finishing a big task. For me, this can be as simple as a work project or one of my own personal "Martha Stewart" projects. The most clear example for me is running a half marathon... I'm not driven enough to do the full one :) Whatever the task is, there is an overwhelming sense of fulfillment at the end. I can't adequately describe this feeling, but it is what makes the stress and sweat all worthwhile.

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Let's Get Together, Yeah Yeah Yeah


It's funny to think that we all give and receive love in different ways. I mean, love is a universal feeling, so you would think it would have a universal expression... but, not so much! The more I get to know people, the more I am amazed at how different we express and accept love.

I've taken the "Love Language" test a few times throughout my life. Apparently, one thing that seems to never change is how I DO an DO NOT receive love. Lots of people need to be affirmed verbally. I have friends that thrive off of this kind of encouragement. It seems like the most straight forward method- I tell you something, and you believe it and feel good about yourself. Right? Well, not so simple for everyone, because I am NOT one of these people. You can pretty much talk until you're blue in the face; I may appreciate it, but it doesn't really resonate with me. I am an "action" person, and my top 2 love languages reflect that. #2 would be "acts of service." If you go out of your way, even slightly, to help me out, it will pretty much blow my mind! #1, however, is "quality time." Groups make me uncomfortable. Hanging out one-on-one is pretty much my favorite thing to do with anybody. What better way to REALLY get to know someone? There is something about quality one-on-one time that allows you to be yourself and really connect with whoever you are with. And, the fact that they are choosing to use their time to spend with you... well, that speaks volumes!

Because I like to receive love these ways, I tend to express my love these ways as well. Life experience has shown me that this doesn't always work. Get to know your friends. If they need "words of affirmation" to feel loved, AFFIRM THEM! If they are "physical touch," HUG THEM! If their love language is receiving gifts, GET YOUR MARTHA STEWART ON! Don't forget about those "quality time" and "acts of service" people though... they may be high maintenance, but they need to feel loved too :)

Thursday, April 28, 2011

I Just Can't Get Enough...


The joys of warm Maryland days. Man, I miss those.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Simple Pleasure #3

Sleeping during the rain. No explanation needed. In fact, it's pouring as I type, and all I can think about is how wonderful a nap is going to be when I get home...

Friday, April 1, 2011

You've Got The Right Stuff...


I don't care what America thinks! Paul McDonald, you've got it goin' on! If James Durbin is what America wants, they can have him! You just keep doing what you do! If you make it BIG TIME, which seems inevitable, don't leave your band... you guys have somethin' special! I'm no Jennifer Lopez or Steven Tyler, but I have ears and a soul, and they both shout "YES!"



My life is changed.

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Simple Pleasure #2


There is something magical about crawling into a made bed with fresh, clean sheets. As you snuggle up, it just feels like all is right in the world. Sigh...

Monday, March 28, 2011

Simple Pleasure #1

I recently got a letter in the mail from my wonderful friend, Emily. It wasn't a bill. It wasn't an advertisement. It wasn't an envelope stuffed with coupons. It was an actual handwritten note! I was practically giddy with excitement! I have always loved handwritten notes- whether in the mail, in a card, on a post-it, or scribbled on a napkin. They can be written for encouragement, to provoke a laugh, to update you on the life of a loved one, or for pretty much any other reason. They can be multiple pages or single words. There is just something about them that makes my heart smile. Unfortunately, technology has all but eliminated these little gems, although this does make me appreciate them even more! If you ever want to brighten my day, just send me some snail mail or stick a post-it note somewhere. I'll reciprocate, and you can see just how wonderful it is! Oh, Emily, I promise I will be writing you back soon!

Thursday, March 24, 2011

When You're Smiling, The Whole World Smiles With You...


Smiles are beautiful. It doesn't matter what your teeth look like, if you have braces, if your cheeks puff out, if your eyes disappear, or any other insecurity you can possibly think of. All smiles are perfect.














Smiles are charming & endearing. They warm the heart and better any bad day.





















And we all know that smiles are contagious! So, smile...



and the world will smile right along with you...

Plus, it looks good on you ;)

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

I've Been Trying Hard To Reach You 'Cause I Don't Know What To Do

I was reading Donald Miller's blog this morning and he was discussing John Chapter 10. Verses 14-16 read:

I am the Good Shepherd. I know my own sheep and my own sheep know me. In the same way, the Father knows me and I know the Father. I put the sheep before myself, sacrificing myself if necessary. You need to know that I have other sheep in addition to those in this pen. I need to gather and bring them, too. They'll also recognize my voice. Then it will be one flock, one Shepherd.

I've heard this verse many times before, but this morning, it hit me in a way like never before. He says his sheep will RECOGNIZE HIS VOICE. As a sheep, I have to ask myself "Do I recognize His voice?" I've been feeling like I'm at a stalemate right now in life, so all I can do is sit and wait. I tell myself I would step forward in one direction, if I just knew which direction God wanted me to go. Typically, I'm a good listener. I pray. I meditate on Scripture, though not as much as I should. I ask questions. SO, why isn't God speaking? What's the delay?! Come on, already!

This Scripture gave me a much needed gut-check! Am I REALLY listening? Maybe God is speaking loud and clear, but I'm only paying as much attention as I do to my mom when she lectures me about things I am already aware of on a daily basis (sorry, mom, if you are somehow reading this- love you). Maybe God is speaking and I am over-analyzing it, which usually results in confusing His voice with my own thoughts. I don't know! The point is, GOD IS SPEAKING! Am I listening... REALLY listening... SOLELY to HIM? I wish I could say "YES," but it looks like I better be listening, instead of speaking...